Welcome to the official page of
The Hots: Relationship Enhancement Card Game
Introducing "The Hots: Relationship Enhancement Cards," where safety, respect, and inclusivity take center stage.
This adult game is crafted to foster intimacy and trust between partners through playful interactions, regardless of gender, sexuality, age, or disability.
Set the mood with a relaxing atmosphere and embark on a journey of exploration within a safe space.
With simple yet engaging game instructions, you'll gradually shed layers of clothing while building tension and excitement.
Open communication and mutual respect are key as you navigate through each card, ensuring a pleasurable experience for both players.
Perfect for couples seeking to reignite their passion and deepen their connection, "The Hots" promises an unforgettable and respectful journey towards intimacy.
Safety and Respect
● Before starting the game, have an adult and respectful conversation. Are you both (all) fully consenting?
● If you’re new players to each other, anxious, awkward, suffered from previous trauma etc, it may be wise to create a safe word if anybody is feeling uncomfortable or distressed by the situation.
● If another player asks you to stop or uses the safe word, please respect their wish. Try to understand that no matter how excited you are feeling, others may be feeling anxious, awkward or uncomfortable with their or your body.
● Good communication is incredibly important in building trust between each other and can lead to a greater understanding of each other’s needs.
● No matter how far the game has progressed. No matter how turned on you
are. No Means No!
Inclusive:
● ‘The Hots’ Relationship Enhancement Cards is a simple game designed to be inclusive for all. No matter your gender, sexuality, age or disability.
● The Hots were created originally by an experienced Relationship Coach to help his clients interact with each other in a slower, more intimate way.
● By tweeking the age old game of snap, the idea was to do away with over complicated rules, so that couples would focus more on the fun of just being together in an intimate environment.
● We encourage players to experiment within a safe space, play around with the rules, dress up, make an effort for each other, feel good about yourself.
The cards can be played with 2 or more players. Yes, we said it. But always only ever play this game in a way that is respectful to your own and others wishes. In no way, shape or form do we intend to offend. Please do likewise. Unless that’s your combined kink, then enjoy.
Setting The Scene:
● Create a relaxing space for you and your partner, somewhere you are both able to move around comfortably, yet stable enough that the cards don’t fly
around everywhere when things get…heated.
● Example: Spread a blanket on the floor, scatter some cushions for comfort, put on some soft lighting, but bright enough for you to read the cards and perhaps a little background music.
Game Instructions:
● Start off by wearing a maximum of 6 items of clothing (pairs of items, like socks, class as one item)
***Suggestion*** Play 90 card pick up. Throw all the cards in the air and the person who picks up the most is the first person to deal.
● Shuffle well and deal all of the cards out to both (or more) players. The other player is the first to lay a card down, face up, between you.
● Then it’s the dealers turn to place a card down on top of the first. Keep taking turns to lay cards down on the pile, until one of you gets a ‘snap’. A snap is an identical card that matches the one underneath it on the pile.
● If you are lucky enough to have placed the ‘snap’, well done! You now get to read out the card and the other player must now follow the instructions
● Example: If the card says “10 kisses on exposed skin”, then the other player
gets to kiss you in 10 separate areas of skin that is exposed, such as the face
or hands if you’re still fully dressed. As the game progresses and clothes slowly come off, there are obviously more areas to kiss. No cheating mind!!
This is a game of building up the tension and excitement.
● When the other player has completed the task on the card, the winner of the round takes the pile the and put it to one side. Then the game continues with the other
player putting down a card in the middle, followed by your card and so on.
● Continue like this until both of your piles of cards have gone. Leave any cards in the middle alone and compare your piles of cards won. Whoever has the biggest pile (size does matter in this occasion) gets to choose an item of
clothing to remove from the losing player. It’s always polite to offer to help
them.
● Now the other player shuffles and deals all the cards, and begin again. Carry
on until both (all) players are naked OR until both (all) can no longer contain
themselves and playing cards is the last thing on your minds.
Don’t mind us.
Enjoy yourselves